A rambaling woman—-
Sometimes I really do not understand people or things. I do try, or as much as I can. But I can’t understand contradictions. I mean a contradiction in itself is a statement one way and then a statement in the opposing way right?How can you pull someone’s brain in two opposite directions. It is like the chesier cat in alice when he says ” she went that way” and points both ways (opposite like this <…>) and she just stands there with a look of confusion.Now I am not going to lie even I have contracted myself …many times infact.But for some reasons that of which I dont know, I can understand my own contradictions, but never others. It jsut gets so frustrating sometimes. Do you guys ever know this feeling? Any solutions on your end? Or do you jsut give up trying to understand and just not care? Because if I take the person literally( which I often do, not reading into bull shit feelings or hidden messages) then the contradiction just drives me even more insane.
You know those little things that you think shouldn’t hurt you .. but do. Why is that?Is it cause we never thgouht they would actually bother us and they do? Or do they tap some kinda feeling that we never thought was there or felt from that situation before? what kinda things upset you that you didnt think would?I know for me I am striat out there with things that bother me.But then I find myself VERY hidden and guarded with others. Not mentioning them what so ever to anyone, or the faulty party that did the hurting of my feelings. Why do u express some things and hide the rest? Do you do that too?
next topic shall we…….. jsut walk right through this door ….:D
Maintaining a little mystery? So I want to know a guys take on a girl being TOO open. What are you limits, like bruping, peeing, shaving, dressing, and other those other random habits EVERYONE has when they are alone.And not only seeing them but her talknig bout them or her confessing to some? Whats ok to you . Or after how long is it ok ? I know it took like about 1 year and 4 months before I even let my bf, at the time and who I was living with, even open the dorr and come into the bathroom when I was in it. Even then after 2 years I still kept closing the door no matter what.He would bug me about that. But it was my comfort level.
Whats ur shy-o-meter? how outgoing or shy do you consider yourself. What situations would make u less shy or more shy?Do you find it something that is very challenging for yourself?whats is a situation that you found yourself in where you didnt think you would be as shy as you were?I would consider myself outgoing but with a LARGE BUBBLE. hehehe some of you knwo this and have hear stories and Kat knows it first hand since she protects me as well! Somethign she is awesome at. hahaha But I am jsut curious as to how else everyone is xoxoxoxo,Tessie