when life hands you lemons …… you are spose to make lemonade right?
What if you are not very fond of lemonade..haha…then what?
Too often than not there seems to be an abundance of hurdles in each persons life. Very different of course for each human, but still I feel some of all the same underlining issues. Everyone wants to feel cared for, nurtured,valued, important,strong,safe,fearless,physically healthy, but most of all overwhelmingly loved.
We all go in search of this, and when we dont achive some of these we feel…..? like failures? unsatified..fullfilled? People say you must love yourself before you love others. But is that true? For love to exist in the first place dont you just have to have a open warming heart for another..See their falts and look past them to the greater overallness of them. What does that have to do with you personally. I would like to believe people can love and truely mean it dispite thier dislike for themselves. I know many around me that underneith it all do not really truely care for themsevles. But I do believe with my WHOLE heart that they do love me. And… I love them back, for those same falts they hate of themsevles.
So back to lemonade… if you dont like it, do you just throw away the lemons, or do you use them simply for somethign else in a diff manner. Maybe as decor, or to flavor a fish, make salad dressing? Or even lemon cupcakes!:D….
So whose to say if you do not truely love youself(lemonade) that you wont find a way to make use of yourself in an area that you do love (cupcakes) for others to love. Is this how the world really works and how love does as well? We all just find a way to find a nitch and someone who loves us for that nitch? Thus making each hurdle we then soon there after run across a little easier to deal with bit by bit? Do we keep finding new little nitches about ourselves growing in numbers of people who love us for each little one till the very end, till we pass away.
I dunno, I really dont know what Im takling about. I am just rambling as thoughts come to my head. And ironically and silly as this is, is that one of you will read this and say so perfectly… I love her for this. And thank you! For this is my days nitch maybe my weeks nitch. One that I think while typing is simply lemonade, but you think it is my lemon cupcake coming to life.
I hope you all are doing well and finding ways to use your lemons. I am struggle/guggling(like a clown haha ) a few of mine but knowing/feeling the love that I know exists from others makes these hurdles just a bit less difficult. Thank you.