Posts Tagged ‘communication’
No Hesitation
What if we all just spoke everything we were thinking? With no hesitations as to how it may effect the other person. Sorta like the movie ’bout the invention of the lie.
I was thinking ’bout this just last night when i was laying listening to my friend gab on and on bout how he finally sold his car (which he has been trying to for a while now.. nice car audi a3 mmmm sexxxyy) and he can now get the car he has always wanted (BMW 3 series). Little tid big of info I HAVE KNOWN HIM FOR 2 YEARS, and knew all about this (listening to it) and year and half ago! As i was happy for him selling the car and finally being able to get the bmw. He seemed to make it more like a burden and work then fun, which baffled me. So in my head I was screaming “This is what you want be fucking happier buddy!!”
Now what if i actually said that aloud, probably, upset him right? I am a blunt person as it is and get told i need to tone down what I say or put it into more kind words. My theroy is if you cant take it I dont care really, cuz I would rather be the real me and honest the sugar coat it. But I do understand being curtious to people. So… what if were were all jsut really blunt mother fuckers? Would we all be yelling and fighting all the time, or would we be like the movie and just kinda know that, that is how life is and take it for what it is. I know I would love to say a few choice things to some people I know ; p.
What do u think? Sometimes I think it would be better if we were all more open etc. and other times, I know it really wouldnt work. hmmmmmm
















